First Date Ideas, Advises, Places and Tips for Ideal Date!

Finally, you met a girl and have already made a date with her. And you are thinking, "How should I behave during this date?" The common answer to this common question is "one should enjoy himself during the entire dating process." But how you may ask. You will learn right now! The more natural you behave, the better for you. Do not over think each step in the process. Naturalness is your friend, not your enemy.

Here is a short list of possible places for taking dates:

Warm weather dating can be in a park, street, or open-air café. Going for a ride in the amusement park is also a good idea. Generally, any place with few external distractions, where both of you can have a nice talk, get to know each other better and enjoy themselves, fits for a date.

In a cold weather meeting in the park falls away. The choice of dating places narrows down. Therefore, taking in account our cold winters, it’s better to have a date inside. You can simply ask a girl to help you buy something in a mall or in a shop. As I noted long ago, girls get on it entusiastically and I don't even know why.

Just some more about the dating places. Never stay in the same place through the entire date! During the dating process, try to visit at least three different places as, first, the girl would get more lively recollections of the date later; second, you would hardly stop intercommunicating and there would be more emotions.

You should definitely forget about McDonald's, honky- tonks, noisy bars and public caterings. I guess you understand why.:)

I think we’re done with the dating places ... Now, let us talk about dating duration. Here is no limit: You can have a one-hour date or you can spend fifteen hours together. If you are capable of conversing easily and have a good time, the duration of a date has nothing to do with your success in the dating process. For example, I happened to have a date and it ended very well.:) We traveled all over Rostov, visited different places and got very closer to each other. Well, it immediately became clear: Do I need this girl or not? For a date the point is to end positively, and for two of you to have nice recollections.

Now the most essential thing I spoke above. Important dating rules:
Be natural: do not let dating “gurus” overshadow your individuality.
Leave your bad mood and problems at home. Do not bring them along while dating.
Look at her as an ordinary girl with whom it is just a pleasure to converse.
Do not think about getting laid. Do not think what to say during the date.
Be sincerely interested in her.
Do not think of dating consequences and do not be afraid to spoil everything.
Be polite, do not use swear words though you may utter platitudes from time to time.
Give her unusual compliments: “how beautiful you are!" won’t do.
Look into her eyes or, being more precise, in one eye (I am not joking) when you both are talking or silent.
Break the eye contact from time to time. Such glance attracts, fascinates and helps to find a common tongue quickly (later in a deep kiss).


Keep your hands to yourself, and just touch gently. Girls are so sensitive to them and really like them. Later, in the bed, they would admit that such light touches were very moving and exciting. Evaluate the girl constantly. Supposedly, she says, "I did this and that". Your response might be, "That’s terrible, I didn’t know that you could be such a girl!" Your responses also should be friendly and encouraging, "Waw! That’s cool! Well done!" The rest are not that important.

You can kiss your date during the process, or can take her home and have fun: this is not important and it does not affect the dating impression.

Remember: it is necessary to establish a good contact with the girl, and then all these rules and techniques would no longer be needed. All other things would unfold by themselves and without any tension. It’s easy! You will be amazed how easy it is.

Finally, it is not a bad idea to have a second date the following day. It will help her not forget you and not lose contacts established during the first date.